I was aware that the butterflies would leave
their home at some point, though the length of their stay on the place that
welcomed them, that still remains a mystery. Butterflies are cold blooded
animals, so they need of warm places to survive, and obviously also need food
to keep his soul afloat.
An atmosphere of love, affection, expression,
concern, freedom, etc., will not always be sufficient for the butterflies to
stay around, they also need the food, those flowers, that nectar to choose to
stay in that home. Sometimes it is not easy to achieve, competition will always
be great, but the details are what make the difference. Much heat is not ideal,
it is suffocating, they are short of breath, losing fluids, and everything is
heavier and denser. If it's too cold the wings will not move, that desire of
wanting to fly won't even exist, there's no energy, and the heat that makes the
body move, the one that makes you feel comfortable. So it is not that easy, as
it must be a balance, which is often not so simple to provide.
Feeding the soul is another thing, which should
complement the above, but must be the perfect complement for the butterflies to
stay forever, and decide not to fly any day looking for another home to give
them what they need. Nectar is what gives them vitality, giving them life, the
desire of never abandon ... Why leave if you have enough food to live a
lifetime? If this becomes scarce, then the need to explore other habitats
appears. And is not a coincidence that their food is the flowers, and the great
admiration for them in our beautiful and beloved women.
Do not neglect your princess, because that's how
you should treat her, regardless of whether you are just starting to court her
or if you are already many years together, the flame must always be kept alive
and in constant motion. Obviously this is necessary on both sides, but I speak
from the side of men and their treatment to women. The world is a constant
competition ... show your charms in every possible way, but do it only when you
find that person who deserves it, there is nothing wrong in showing feelings,
it is a human characteristic to think that one is weaker for being sensitive
and emotional. The courting process should never stop, always keep a little mystery
alive, surprise, creativity, and do new things. Be intense and passionate if
that person makes you feel you want to show it, have no fear, the worst that
can happen is that you make a mistake, and that your feelings are not received
in the way you expect, but at least you tried. If you don't try you will never
know what it might have been. It's up to you to keep the butterflies flying and
circling forever, so they do not leave halfway...
